I spoke to soon… I replaced the relay, went fishing once the boat was parked for a few days and went to take it out on the river and the trim had shorted out and this time it burned up the trim motor…… GRRRRRRRRR!!!!!! Took it to the shop this time, he said I was lucky I still had a boat it fried the crap out of the trim motor, he couldnt find anything that was screaming at him that would cause the short. So, I had him disconnect the front trim (I will run new wiring for it myself no need to pay him $100.00 an hour to run wires) Im replacing the trim switch in the throttle box and the trim switch on the engine, replacing both relays and now replacing the fried trim motor. Like I said nothing is sticking out like a sore thumb to me or him and I really cant afford to be replacing trim motors regularly… Anyone else have any ideas or suggestions as to what the culprit might be? He also said the trim switch on the cowl of these motors was pretty notorious for having a mind of its own… Im also gonna put in an inline switch for the starting battery so when I park it I can disconnect the battery with the flip of a switch. Besides that my throttle cable is worn and the throttle control box had something break inside so I guess its time to install a hot foot….. I guess its just money right?