Everything happens for a reason . — We just dont get to know what the reason is until after the fact , if at all . — Frustration , understood , but stressing over it is harmful , in more ways than one . — Great things come to those who wait , patiently . — An old adage about a bird in the hand versus 2 in the bush comes to mind . — Bassinman , Im sorry your plans got screwed up by this unfortunate turn of events , but it will all work out in the end . — You always have the option to cancel if youre truly that dissatisfied . — Whatever your decision , take care , and God Bless . — If you decide to stay in the family , WELCOME !! —